Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

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Podcast by Adam Alvarez; Pris Alvarez

Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

Welcome to the wild, honest, and hilarious world of Beyond Monogamy—a podcast where longtime lifestyle couple Adam & Pris spill the tea (and sometimes the lube) on all things ethical non-monogamy. From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place. Expect real talk, lots of laughs, and candid conversations about sex, relationships, parenting, judgment, and finding connection beyond traditional monogamy. 🛏️ New episodes drop every Sunday and Wednesday. 🎥 Now with video! Watch on YouTube or visit www.beyond-monogamy.com

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19 November 2025

QUICKIE: Mental Health & The Lifestyle

Mental Health & The Lifestyle: Depression, Anxiety, Jealousy & the Parts Nobody Talks About

In this week's Beyond Monogamy Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam & Pris crack open a conversation most lifestyle folks avoid: mental health. From depression that hides behind humor, to feeling unwanted in LS spaces, to the pressure of always "being on" because of content creation, this episode gets raw, honest, and deeply needed.

Adam opens up about a form of depression that doesn't look like the stereotypical "can't get out of bed" kind — it looks more like working nonstop, smiling through the storm, and masking with jokes. Pris shares the emotional weight of their poly years, what she kept inside, how depression silently grew, and how finally being honest helped her breathe again.

Together, they break down the emotional side of non-monogamy that impacts self-worth, jealousy, compersion, body image, performance anxiety, rejection, and confidence in the lifestyle. If you've ever felt overwhelmed in the lifestyle… if you've ever questioned your worth… if you've ever smiled on the outside while drowning inside… this one's for you.

💬 Episode Focus: Mental Health & The Lifestyle

In this candid, heartfelt QUICKIE, Adam & Pris dive into the mental and emotional side of ethical non-monogamy and swinging:

  • Why mental health struggles are common but rarely talked about in the lifestyle
  • What happens when one partner is "more into it" than the other, and depression quietly builds under the surface
  • The emotional weight of their poly years and what hiding feelings did to Pris's mental health
  • The heavy feeling of not feeling wanted or noticed at lifestyle events and clubs
  • How the lifestyle can sometimes feel like high school all over again — cliques, comparison, and insecurity
  • How rejection and "you're not my type" moments hit self-esteem and confidence
  • The pressure of being "on" all the time when you're known for your podcast and content
  • Adam's personal experience with depression that hides behind humor, productivity, and obsession with work
  • Why communication is absolutely crucial when jealousy, compersion, and insecurity show up
  • How mental health and sexual health are deeply connected — and why it's hard to perform when your brain is overloaded
  • Why it's okay (and healthy) to pause, reset, or step back from the lifestyle when life starts "lifing"

The main takeaway? Protect your peace as much as you protect your parts. The lifestyle can be fun as hell, but only if your mind is in a good place while you're living it.

🌐 Start Here: Our Website

👉 https://www.beyond-monogamy.com

🎧 Listen & Watch

You can find Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris on all major platforms, including:

  • Apple Podcasts
  • Spotify
  • Amazon Music
  • Pandora
  • YouTube – full video episodes

Remember: You don't have to be non-monogamous to enjoy a show about non-monogamy.

📻 Full Swap Radio

Catch Beyond Monogamy every Thursday on FullSwapRadio.com at:

  • 2:00 PM Central
  • 7:00 PM Central

📱 Follow & Connect With Us

  • Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
  • Facebook: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
  • Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
  • Twitter / X: @beyomono
  • TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) & @adam&beyond (Adam)
  • YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
  • Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
  • Discord: Join our community for lifestyle chat, episode discussions, and event info.

💌 Need Support or Someone to Talk To?

If this episode hit close to home and you're struggling with depression, anxiety, jealousy, or feeling unwanted in the lifestyle, please know:

  • You're not weird. You're not broken. You're human.
  • Your mental health matters just as much as your sexual exploration.
  • It's okay to step back, slow down, or hit pause when life gets heavy.

You can:

  • Submit an anonymous story or question through our Confessional on the website.
  • Reach out privately through our contact form or DMs on social media.
  • Share this episode with a partner or friend if you don't know how to start the conversation.

We can't be your therapists, but we can be your people — a couple who gets it, who's been through it, and who is willing to talk about the stuff most lifestyle conversations skip.

✅ Before You Go

  • Like, subscribe, and follow on your favorite podcast platform.
  • Leave a rating and review — it helps more people in (and out of) the lifestyle find the show.
  • Share this episode with someone who might be struggling silently.
  • Join our Patreon for deeper dives, behind-the-scenes content, and more real talk.

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16 November 2025

The Lifestyle Is for Everyone: Inclusivity & Texas Desires Hotel Takeover

The Lifestyle Is for Everyone: Inclusivity & Texas Desires Hotel Takeover

Episode Summary

This episode opens with a listener voicemail from a lesbian couple asking how they fit into the lifestyle—so we break down inclusive, real-world guidance for same-sex couples navigating LS spaces, boundaries, and community. Then we sit down with Texas Desires to preview their Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover in San Antonio, Dec 5–6, where we'll be recording a live Beyond Monogamy podcast.

Expect a true full-property buyout (not just a "top-floor party"), flat $500 room rate (king for 2 or double-queen for up to 4), BYOB, and upgraded breakfast included—no hidden fees. To reserve, email Loyd@rbhacc.com (one "L").

Listener Voicemail: "How do lesbian couples fit into the lifestyle?"

  • We discuss why many events historically skew toward the straight-male / bi-female dynamic and how to navigate that as a same-sex couple—focusing on mentorship, clear boundaries, and finding welcoming communities.
  • Practical tips: look for friendly faces, build your table if no one pulls out a chair, and use lighthearted icebreakers to meet people.

Texas Desires: Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover (San Antonio • Dec 5–6)

  • Dates/Location: Dec 5–6 in San Antonio (exact hotel released the week of for attendee safety).
  • True hotel buyout: Texas Desires rents the entire hotel for the weekend, creating a cohesive, clothing-optional vibe within legal rules.
  • Pricing (flat, no add-ons): $500 per room; up to 4 people in a double-queen, 2 people in a king. Organizer covers credit card fees, hotel taxes, security, and DJ.
  • Food & Drinks: BYOB; breakfast included and upgraded; food trucks on site (purchase your own food).
  • Rules & Comfort: Clothing required in food-service areas; full itinerary coming soon. Ladies—bring comfy shoes!
  • How to Reserve: Email Loyd@rbhacc.com (one "L"). Rooms still available—don't lose your spot!

Why This Takeover's Different

Texas Desires designs a true weekend escape—an all-inclusive, full-property experience for the lifestyle community, not a scattered, mixed-public hotel setup. It's an event where connection, comfort, and freedom meet.

Beyond Monogamy Events

Keep an eye on our Events Page for updates on this takeover and other upcoming meetups. We'll sync our calendar as Texas Desires releases their full itinerary.

Links & How to Support

  • Website & Events: www.beyond-monogamy.com • Events
  • Confessional (anonymous stories): Available on our website under "Confessional."
  • Patreon (bonus content & behind-the-scenes): Join on Patreon
  • FullSwapRadio: Catch Beyond Monogamy every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM CST.

Socials

Calls to Action

  • Reserve your room: Email Loyd@rbhacc.com (one "L").
  • Subscribe on YouTube, follow on socials, join Patreon, and drop an anonymous Confession on our site.
  • Share & Review the show—help us grow the lifestyle community!

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12 November 2025

Inside the Mind of Adam: Love, Chaos & Building a Beyond-Monogamy Marriage

Inside the Mind of Adam: Love, Chaos & Building a Beyond-Monogamy Marriage

Episode Type: QUICKIE
Show: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

What keeps a man grounded when life, love, and the lifestyle all collide? In this fun, raw, and real QUICKIE, Pris flips the mic on her husband and co-host, Adam, to dig deep into how he balances it all: a fiery wife, a busy podcast, family life, and the ups and downs of non-monogamy.

From jealousy and communication struggles to menopause, ADHD, finances, and the messy moments in marriage, Adam gets vulnerable about what it really takes to stay connected, keep the peace, and grow stronger together. If you've ever wondered what makes a relationship survive the chaos of real life and the lifestyle, this one's for you.

They talk teamwork, love languages, reconnection rituals, emotional self-awareness, and why "meet in the middle" might be the ultimate relationship cheat code. You'll laugh, relate, and maybe even tear up as Adam shares the heart behind the brand — and why this podcast is so much more than stories and sex talk.

☕ Grab your coffee, your partner, or your favorite toy — this episode is real-life love in the raw.

In This Episode

  • How Adam stays balanced through love, chaos, and menopause
  • The truth about communication and emotional reconnection in long-term relationships
  • Jealousy vs. security in non-monogamy and the lifestyle
  • How teamwork and "meeting in the middle" matter more than chemistry alone
  • Reconnecting after lifestyle events: coffee, food, and real conversations
  • Real talk about finances, stress, and why relationships matter more than money
  • How Beyond Monogamy became a growing community for couples and the curious
  • Adam's passion for turning this podcast into a lifelong mission for both of them

Top Takeaways

  • Communication beats competition. If you're trying to "win" an argument, you both lose.
  • Meet in the middle. Love isn't always 50/50 — it's about showing up as a team.
  • Hormones are real. Menopause, cycles, mental health and hormones affect communication and reactions for both partners.
  • Appreciation matters. Small acts of service, physical affection, and words of gratitude stack up over time.
  • Reconnection is a ritual. Post-event coffee dates, debriefs, and honest talks keep you grounded and close.
  • Remember your priorities. Money, jobs, and outside stress come and go — your partner, kids, and core relationships are the real foundation.
  • Honesty over perfection. It's okay to admit when you're struggling, shutting down, or needing space — as long as you communicate it.

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Upcoming Events

  • Texas Legends Hotel Takeover – San Antonio
    December 5–7 — Live Beyond Monogamy show & Q&A on-site. Details on our Events Page.
  • Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet – Club Eden San Antonio
    December 13 — Hang out with us, ask questions, and connect with community. Info also on our Events Page.

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Help Us Grow

If you enjoyed this episode, please like, subscribe, share, and leave a review wherever you listen. It helps more people find Beyond Monogamy and keeps this community growing strong.

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09 November 2025

Inside Austin's Oldest Adult Store: Exploring Sex Toys, Local Pleasure Brands & Flirting in the Lifestyle

🎧 Inside Austin's Oldest Adult Store: Exploring Sex Toys, Local Pleasure Brands & Flirting in the Lifestyle

Step inside Austin's legendary adult boutique, Forbidden Fruit, with Adam & Pris for a wild and hilarious live recording of Beyond Monogamy.

In this special episode, the duo explores the shelves of Texas' oldest adult store — surrounded by locally made toys, leather gear, art, and laughter — while diving into the unspoken rules of flirting in the lifestyle.

From favorite toy confessions and lube mishaps to open talk about pleasure, body confidence, and communication, this episode blends real education with the humor and honesty Beyond Monogamy is known for.

Whether you're a curious newcomer or a longtime swinger, this one's packed with relatable insights, Austin flavor, and a reminder that pleasure is personal — and better when shared.

🔥 Highlights

  • Live at ForbiddenFruit.com — Austin's oldest adult store
  • Local toy makers, workshops, and sex-positive education
  • Adam's first guy toy experience (and how it changed his mind)
  • Pris on female pleasure, confidence, and toys in the bedroom
  • How to introduce toys and talk about pleasure with new partners
  • Upcoming events: Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet, Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover (Dec 5–7 in San Antonio)

🎙️ Episode Details

Hosts: Adam & Pris
Podcast: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

💬 What We Talk About

  • Behind the scenes of Forbidden Fruit, Austin's oldest adult store
  • Supporting local Texas toy makers and artists
  • Exploring toys, kink gear, and sexual wellness in a welcoming environment
  • The difference between flirting and hitting on people in the lifestyle
  • Why using toys doesn't replace your partner — it enhances connection
  • Flirting Etiquette 101: how to read energy, respect consent, and avoid awkwardness
  • Real talk about size, pleasure, and confidence between couples
  • Adam & Pris's personal stories (and hilarious moments caught on mic)

🗓️ Upcoming Events

  • 💥 Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet + Live Show
    📍 Forbidden Fruit Austin
    🗓️ Saturday • 12 PM – 4 PM
  • 🎅 Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover
    📍 San Antonio, TX • Dec 5–7
    🎤 Live Podcast & Q&A with Adam & Pris
    👉 Event Details & Tickets

🌐 Connect with Beyond Monogamy

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05 November 2025

Lifestyle Events 101: How to Survive (and Thrive) at Your First Swinger Party

Quickie Episode • Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

Lifecycle Events 101: How to Survive (and Thrive) at Your First Swinger Party

First link (all details & tickets): See Our Events Calendar

Episode Summary

Nervous about your first lifestyle event? We've got you. In this Quickie, Adam & Pris get real about first-timer anxiety, how to find the right events, what to expect once you're there, and simple ways to meet people without feeling overwhelmed. We also share details for two big meetups: our November 8th Meet & Greet at Forbidden Fruit (Austin) and the December 5–7 Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover in San Antonio, where we'll host a live Beyond Monogamy show with audience Q&A.

Come Hang With Us — Upcoming Events

➡️ Full Events Page (dates, times, maps, updates)

📍 Saturday, November 8 — Meet & Greet @ Forbidden Fruit (Austin, TX)

  • Time: 12:00 PM – 4:00 PM (we may stay later if it's poppin')
  • Where: Inside Forbidden Fruit (Austin's oldest locally owned adult boutique; block-party vibes with neighboring local shops)
  • What's happening: Photos, lives, light Q&A, merch, and meet-the-hosts energy
  • Parking tip: It's tight—street or neighborhood parking recommended. Worth the walk!

Full address, updates, and reminders are on our Events Page.

🎄 December 5–7 — Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover (San Antonio, TX)

  • Weekend takeover: Lifestyle community, day events, and night parties
  • We're performing: A live Beyond Monogamy podcast + audience Q&A (seating + mic setup on site)
  • Heads-up: Rooms are moving fast—see the Events Page for info & booking details

Traveling in to see us? Tell us you're coming—we love meeting out-of-towners.

How to Find Lifestyle Events

  • Check vetted platforms like SDC and Kasidie for party & meet-and-greet listings.
  • Local Facebook communities (often invite-only)—meet people at clubs and ask for a group invite.
  • At meet-and-greets, introduce yourself to the host or a connector; start with one person, let them introduce you onward.

First-Timer Tips (Real Talk)

  • It's normal to be nervous—your first event is the hardest; it gets easier fast.
  • Have a drink if you want, but avoid overdoing it—staying aware keeps you safe and confident.
  • Safety first: watch your surroundings, stick together, and honor consent like it's sacred.

Links & Resources Mentioned

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lifestyle events, swinger events, ethical non-monogamy, meet and greet Austin, Naughty and Nice hotel takeover, swinger podcast, open relationships, Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris, non-monogamy podcast, Full Swap Radio, lifestyle community Texas

Enjoyed the episode? Please like, subscribe, share, and leave a review—this helps the community find us and keeps the conversations.

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02 November 2025

Jealousy, Labels & Latino Love: Psychologist Jaime Gama on Ethical Non-Monogamy, Swinging vs. Poly, & Building Community

In this powerful and refreshingly funny conversation, Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris sits down with psychologist, Gestalt therapist, creator of Gotitas de Poliamor, and author Jaime Gama to unpack what it really takes to thrive in ethical non-monogamy. We dive into jealousy vs. compersion, swinging vs. polyamory, boundaries, Latin culture, and unlearning shame—mixing research-backed wisdom with real-life stories.

CTA: If you enjoyed this episode, please like, subscribe, share, and leave a review on whatever platform you listen on—it seriously helps the community grow!

Meet Us IRL: We'll be at Forbidden Fruit (Austin) on November 8—come say hi and join our live Q&A session!

Show Notes

Key Topics

  • How labels help—when they're guides, not molds
  • Swinging vs. Polyamory: sex-forward vs. romance-forward dynamics
  • Jealousy isn't the villain: safety, communication, and growth
  • Latin culture, masculinity, shame, and sexual autonomy
  • Consent, agency, honesty & compassion as relationship pillars
  • Why community is the #1 unlock for sustainable ENM

About Our Guest

Jaime Gama is a psychologist and Gestalt therapist, international educator on ethical non-monogamy, and author of Si te duele, ahí no es. He leads workshops, writes, and creates hugely popular content that makes complex relationship ideas practical and accessible.
Website: www.gotitasdepoliamor.com

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Come Hang With Us

Forbidden Fruit (Austin) — November 8
Meet-and-greet + listener Q&A. Can't wait to see you there!

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