Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

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Podcast by Adam Alvarez; Pris Alvarez

Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

Welcome to the wild, honest, and hilarious world of Beyond Monogamy—a podcast where longtime lifestyle couple Adam & Pris spill the tea (and sometimes the lube) on all things ethical non-monogamy. From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place. Expect real talk, lots of laughs, and candid conversations about sex, relationships, parenting, judgment, and finding connection beyond traditional monogamy. 🛏️ New episodes drop every Sunday and Wednesday. 🎥 Now with video! Watch on YouTube or visit www.beyond-monogamy.com

Latest episodes

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14 September 2025

Savage Swingers Unleashed: TikTok Fame, Lifestyle Myths & Honest Conversations

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🎧 Episode Summary

What happens when TikTok meets the swinger lifestyle? In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Amber & Jeff—better known as the Savage Swingers. With their bold, funny, and unfiltered approach, Savage Swingers have built a huge following by showing the lifestyle as it really is: messy, sexy, and authentic.

We dive into their story—from a wild tent camping first experience at a music festival, to becoming lifestyle content creators with thousands of followers. Along the way, we laugh about resting bitch face problems, talk through misconceptions about swingers, and explore how communication and education are the real keys to keeping relationships strong.

If you’ve ever wondered what it’s like to live your truth publicly in the ethical non-monogamy world—or you just need some savage laughs with your lifestyle inspo—this episode brings it all.

💡 What You’ll Hear in This Episode

  • How Savage Swingers went from nervous TikTok posts to lifestyle influencers

  • Their not-so-glamorous first experience (tent camping, no A/C, and yep… still fun)

  • The biggest swinger lifestyle myths they want to bust

  • Why communication + education are everything for newbies

  • How they handle jealousy, insecurities, and staying authentic

  • What it’s really like to be recognized at lifestyle events

  • The importance of showing not just the sexy highlights, but the real struggles too

🔑 Keywords & Topics

  • Savage Swingers interview

  • TikTok swingers

  • swinger lifestyle myths

  • ethical non-monogamy podcast

  • open relationship communication

  • ENM content creators

  • jealousy and reassurance in swinging

  • Beyond Monogamy podcast guests

🔗 Savage Swingers Links

  • TikTok: SavageSwingers 1.0, 2.0, 3.0

  • YouTube: Savage Swingers

  • Patreon: The Savage Swingers

  • Website: savageswingers.com

🔗 Beyond Monogamy Links

Find more episodes, blogs, and community spaces at: www.beyond-monogamy.com

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10 September 2025

QUICKIE: Lifestyle 101 Series - Having The "Lifestyle" Talk With Your Partner

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Episode Summary – QUICKIE: Having The Talk

Starting the journey into ethical non-monogamy isn’t about parties or dating apps—it begins with a single conversation: how do you even bring this up with your partner? In this Lifestyle 101 Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam & Pris get raw, funny, and brutally honest about what that first talk looked like for them (spoiler: it wasn’t perfect) and what they’ve learned along the way.

They share:

  • Timing matters – don’t drop the “lifestyle bomb” in the middle of a fight or after a few too many drinks.

  • The preamble is everything – set the stage gently, ask if your partner is in a good headspace, and be ready for big feelings.

  • Insecurities are normal – both men and women may wonder, “Am I not enough?” and that’s okay.

  • Reassurance isn’t optional – words of affirmation, consistent support, and clear communication keep your foundation solid.

  • Rules and boundaries – from safe words to texting check-ins, clear agreements protect both your relationship and your fun.

  • Consent is sexy – not just with play partners, but between you and your spouse, every step of the way.

Adam & Pris keep it 100% real about jealousy, insecurities, ultimatums, and the mistakes they made as newbies—and they drop practical advice for how couples can avoid the crash-and-burn moments while setting themselves up for success.

At the end of the day, “having the talk” isn’t a one-time thing. It’s a conversation that will keep evolving with your relationship, and the key is staying honest, open, and connected.

Show Notes

Episode Title: QUICKIE – Having The Talk: Lifestyle 101 with Adam & Pris
Podcast: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

In this episode you’ll learn:

  • Why timing and setting are critical when you bring up non-monogamy.

  • How to use a preamble to ease your partner into sensitive conversations.

  • The role of reassurance and emotional safety in keeping your relationship strong.

  • Why rules, boundaries, and safe words matter for beginners.

  • How alcohol and ultimatums can derail healthy conversations.

  • The truth about consent—between partners and with others.

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Also streaming on: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Pandora, iHeartRadio, YouTube, and every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com.

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07 September 2025

Beyond Fantasy: Francesca Gentille on Kink, Jealousy & Keeping Passion Alive

In this powerful and deeply intimate conversation, Adam & Pris sit down with Francesca Gentille — internationally recognized teacher, coach, and author — to explore the intersections of trauma healing, sacred kink, non-monogamy, and empowered aging.

Francesca opens up about her own journey: from childhood as a natural counselor, to studying psychology, tantra, BDSM, and shamanic practices that connect fantasy with healing. She breaks down the roots of modern kink, leather culture, and polyamory, while challenging myths that label kink as “just trauma” or non-monogamy as “abnormal.”

Together, we dive into:

  • How fantasies are shaped by trauma, culture, and healing opportunities.

  • Sacred Kink practices that transform play into intention, empowerment, and soul connection.

  • Addiction vs. vibrancy — how to tell when desire is a compulsion and when it’s authentic.

  • Erotic hypnosis, empowerment scenes, and fantasy integration for deeper intimacy.

  • Menopause & vitality: how to break the cultural curse of aging, embrace bioidentical hormone replacement, and keep passion alive in long-term relationships.

  • Jealousy reframed: why Francesca says “don’t call it jealousy” and how to uncover the deeper roots of those feelings.

This is one of those episodes that’s hot, spiritual, and full of practical wisdom. Whether you’re kinky, poly, swinging, or just curious, Francesca brings tools and insights that can change the way you approach intimacy.

Show Notes

🔥 Guest Links & Resources

🎙️ What You’ll Learn in This Episode

  • The shamanic roots of BDSM and why kink can be sacred.

  • How trauma and fantasy connect — and how to heal without losing your desires.

  • Why menopause doesn’t mean the end of sex (and how to advocate for hormone health).

  • Practical ways couples can juggle family, non-monogamy, and still keep intimacy alive.

  • How reframing “jealousy” can unlock deeper self-understanding and stronger connections.

💬 Join the Conversation
If Francesca’s story and wisdom resonate with you, share this episode with a friend or partner, and let’s keep breaking stigmas together.

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03 September 2025

Quickie Confessions: Our First Time, Fumbles, and Lessons Learned

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🎙️ Episode Summary

In this week’s episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we dive deep into the world of ethical non-monogamy, swinging, polyamory, and everything in between. We talk real stories, messy moments, and the kind of raw honesty you won’t find anywhere else. If you’ve ever wondered what it’s actually like to navigate relationships beyond traditional monogamy, this episode is packed with insights, laughs, and a few surprises.

Whether you’re a seasoned swinger, exploring polyamory, or just curious about ENM (ethical non-monogamy), we break down the lifestyle in a way that’s both relatable and real.

📌 Show Notes

  • Topics covered: consent, communication, jealousy, swinging etiquette, and the unglamorous truths of the lifestyle.

  • Why listen? This isn’t a “highlight reel”—it’s the authentic ups, downs, and everything in between that make non-monogamy real.

  • SEO keywords woven in: swinging podcast, ethical non-monogamy, polyamory relationships, ENM community, lifestyle couples, consensual non-monogamy stories.

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⚡ Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share—your reviews and community support help us grow and keep creating raw, unfiltered conversations about love, sex, and everything beyond monogamy.

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31 August 2025

Hook, Line, and Lie: When Catfish Swim into the Lifestyle

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💻 Episode Summary

This week on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we’re diving into a topic that every swinger, poly couple, and ethically non-monogamous adventurer should have on their radar: catfishing in the lifestyle.

No, not fishing in swamps or noodling in muddy rivers—we’re talking about people pretending to be someone they’re not online, sliding into lifestyle spaces with fake photos, shady profiles, and sometimes even predatory intentions.

From AOL chatrooms and puppy-love disasters to today’s TikTok scammers asking Adam for $45 nail money (yes, that happened), we unpack decades of personal stories, listener anecdotes, and lifestyle lessons. We break down:

  • 🎭 The Types of Catfish:
    – Filter fiends & “20-year-old” photos
    – Fake couples (ahem… actually just one lonely guy)
    – Profiles with pro-model shots only
    – “I swear my partner knows!”… when they don’t
    – The scammers fishing for your nudes (and why we don’t trade pics unless you’re real)

  • 🚩 Red Flags to Watch For:
    – No face pics
    – Always “too busy” to meet or video chat
    – Overeager for nudes or instant hookups
    – Stories that just don’t add up

  • 💔 The Fallout:
    – Emotional letdowns & wasted time
    – Safety concerns, especially for women
    – Erosion of trust in lifestyle communities
    – Why a single lie makes people wonder, “What else are they hiding?”

  • 🛡️ Protect Yourself:
    – Video verify (FaceTime, Messenger, Zoom—anything live)
    – Meet first at lifestyle clubs or trusted meet & greets
    – Cross-reference profiles on sites like SDC, SLS, Kasidie
    – Build a trusted network who can vouch for people
    – And above all—trust your gut. If it feels off, it probably is.

Through all the laughs and real talk, Adam and Pris remind us that the lifestyle is built on trust, consent, and honesty. Without that, the sexy adventures we love lose their magic.

🔥 Key Takeaway

Catfishing isn’t just annoying—it can be unsafe. Protect yourself, protect your community, and keep the fun alive by staying vigilant and unapologetically real.

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We want YOUR stories! Have you ever been catfished in the lifestyle? Drop us a voicemail, send a message, or hit us up on our socials. We might even feature your story in a future QUICKIE episode.

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Remember—you are part of our community, and our community is our family. 💜

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27 August 2025

QUICKIE: Cum Talk – Love It, Hate It, or Wipe It Off?

In this spicy QUICKIE, Adam and Pris dive into one of the stickiest topics in sex and the lifestyle: cum. From facials to cream pies, swallowing to spitting, they explore what men and women really feel about it — the turn-ons, the turn-offs, and the unspoken rules around consent. They share their own stories, laugh at awkward encounters, and break down why porn sets up unrealistic expectations. They also touch on lifestyle etiquette, the psychology of cum play, and how diet and habits affect taste. As always, it’s raw, unfiltered, and hilariously real.

✍️ Show Notes (SEO-Heavy)

Title: QUICKIE: Cum Talk – Love It, Hate It, or Wipe It Off?

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In this week’s QUICKIE, Adam & Pris get messy (literally) with a raw and funny conversation about cum. Why do some love it while others hate it? Is swallowing a turn-on or a dealbreaker? What role does diet play in taste? And how does cum play fit into the swinger lifestyle with all its rules, boundaries, and safety concerns?

From embarrassing stories and personal kinks to the psychology of facials and cream pies, this episode is all about opening up the conversation — sticky jokes included.

You’ll Hear About:

  • Why porn creates unrealistic cum expectations

  • Swallowing vs. spitting (and why consent always matters)

  • The psychology behind facials and cream pies

  • Cum rules in the swinger lifestyle

  • How diet, hydration, and habits affect taste

  • Turn-ons, turn-offs, and awkward cum moments

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